Communication and Your 8- to 12-Month-Old (for Parents) (2024)

In these months, your baby might say "mama" or "dada" for the first time, and may communicate using body language, like waving bye-bye and shaking their head.

Your baby is paying even more attention to your words and gestures and will try very hard to copy you — so be careful what you say!

How Do Babies Communicate?

Babies this age test their verbal skills as they prepare for their big speaking debut. From babbling strings of consonants like "babababa," they will begin to produce recognizable syllables, such as "ma," "ba," and "da." By seeing their parents' excitement at hearing "dada" or "mama," babies soon learn to connect a word with its meaning.

Even before babies say their first word, they are learning to communicate through gestures like lifting up their arms so you can pick them up and waving goodbye. They can make facial expressions that look happy, sad, angry, and surprised.

You'll know your baby understands what you say when you ask "Where's Daddy?" and your little one looks his way. You might point and say, "Go find the ball!" and your baby may crawl right to it. Babies look when you call their names and pause briefly or stop what they're doing when you give a firm "NO!"

What Should I Do?

  • Interact often. Continue talking, singing, and reading to your baby. Repeat sounds and say simple words. Ask your baby to point to familiar objects and ask, "Where's the cup?" Or point to a ball and ask, "What's that?" Pause before you provide the answer. Soon your baby will be pointing and saying "bah."
  • Label everything. Labeling objects reinforces the message that everything has its own name. From milk in the morning to a teddy bear at night, naming familiar objects will help your little one learn what they're called.Make learning a whole-body experience: Touch your baby's toe when you say the word "toe." Or point out your own ear and say, "Mommy's (or Daddy's) ear." Face each other when you speak to let your baby see your facial expression and lip movements.
  • Sing and play rhyming games. This encourages language learning. Throw in hand gestures and vary the style and tempo of the music to keep your baby's attention. Babies like rhymes, which show how playful language can be.
  • Read from large, colorful picture books, and encourage your baby to turn the pages. Ask your baby to "read" and "answer" your questions.

When Should I Call the Doctor?

If you have concerns about your baby's language skills or hearing, talk to your doctor. By 12 months, most babies:

  • understand "no" (pause briefly or stop when you say it)
  • make different sounds like “mamamama” or “babababa”
  • wave bye-bye
  • call caregivers mama and dada (or other special name)

Keep in mind that there's a wide range of what's considered normal when it comes to language development, so some babies gain skills earlier or later than others.

Communication and Your 8- to 12-Month-Old (for Parents) (2024)

FAQs

Communication and Your 8- to 12-Month-Old (for Parents)? ›

Interact often.

Which form of infant communication begins at 8 to 12 months of age? ›

7 to 12 Months

Your child's babbling will begin to sound more like words. They'll intentionally repeat sounds (like "gaga") over and over. At about 9 months, they'll start to understand gestures, pointing and grunting to indicate their wants.

How do babies communicate at 12 months? ›

Gesture or point, often with words or sounds to show what they want. Copy lots of things that adults say and gestures that they make. Start to enjoy simple pretend play, for example pretending to talk on the phone.

What are the communication milestones for 8 month old? ›

By six to nine months, your baby will start to recognise the use of certain phrases in context. For example, when you say 'bye-bye', your baby might wave. Around this time, your baby will also start to turn to familiar voices across a room and will probably begin to respond to his or her own name.

When should parents stop using baby talk? ›

Around 18 to 24 months, toddlers start to develop more complex language abilities and are able to understand and produce longer sentences. This is a critical time for language development, and parents should begin to shift away from using baby talk and start using more complex language with their child.

What is the first language with which parents and infants communicate? ›

Self-conscious emotions are the first language with which parents and infants communicate. Social relationships seldom provide the setting for the development of emotions. Biological evolution has endowed human beings to be emotional.

What are some communication milestones for a typically developing child at 12 months? ›

By the end of 12 months, your child might: Try copying speech sounds. Say a few words, such as "dada," "mama" and "uh-oh." Understand simple commands, such as "Come here."

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